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Come To Him

In Matthew 11:28 Jesus says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest.”

Many of us are carrying burdens we were never meant to carry. We have become consumed with worry, fear, anxiety, depression, addictions; the list goes on and on. God has given us an extraordinary invitation to come to Him if we’re weary and burdened. He wants us to turn over all of the things that have been weighing us down. He wants to release us from our bondage. He wants to set us FREE! All we have to do is come and lay our burdens at His feet. His freedom is readily available to all of us, but we must choose to let go. You see, we can’t take hold of freedom while we’re still clinging to our bondage.

Today I invite you to accept Christ’s invitation. Come to Him, lay your burdens down and rest, knowing and believing that He has set you free.

Remember: “If the Son sets you free, you are truly free.”

“Finally Free” Book & Conference – Full Of Gratitude

Now Available In Print & For Kindle At OR

This is just a quick “Thank You” blog!  I believe we don’t thank people enough for the way they care and support us, so I don’t want to miss this opportunity to say thank you to everyone who has played a part in my book, “Finally Free” coming out and also the “Finally Free Women’s Conference” that we did back in May.  There are so many of you that support our ministry in many different ways.  You give of your time, energy, talents and resources and it always overwhelms us!  To those who have given so much, I want to say THANK YOU…..we couldn’t do this without you.

I also want to thank all of you who continue to support us by purchasing our books and CDs and attending our concerts and conferences.   The fact that you would choose to spend time with us, whether it’s an hour for a concert or a weekend retreat, when you have such busy lives, is very humbling.   I thank you from the bottom of my heart!

If you haven’t gotten a copy of the “Finally Free” book yet, I hope you will consider doing so.  I’m not trying to make a sales pitch.  I’m saying it only because the things I discuss in the book have really helped me, and my prayer is that God will use those things to impact others as well.

I also want to encourage you to join our new Finally Free Facebook group. Simply search Finally Free in the search bar to find us on Facebook and join the discussion. You can also keep in touch with us here.

God has so much for us and I want EVERYTHING that He has for me.  That may sound selfish, but I’m willing to risk sounding selfish when it comes to the things of God.  I don’t want to sell Him short. I want all of the blessings that He has for me and I want to be able to use those blessings to bring Him honor and glory and to expand His Kingdom.

I still have so much to learn, but I’m forever grateful for lessons He has already taught me and for the way He loves me.  The “Finally Free” book gives you a little insight into those things and I hope it can encourage you along your own personal path.

Thank you again for all you have done to make my own journey so enjoyable.  You all are gifts to me and to Tabor Ministries!

Forever grateful,


Finally Free Women’s Conference – May 21, 2011

I am so excited about the upcoming Finally Free Women’s Conference! I’m passionate about helping women live in the true freedom God has for each of them. Why am I passionate about this? Because a few years ago I looked in the mirror and realized that although I had a relationship with Jesus Christ, I was still bound by things like fear, worry and anxiety.  I wasn’t living my life to the fullest because I was weighed down by things I was never meant to carry.  I also began to see that other women both inside and outside of the church were just as bound as I was, so I decided it was time to share my story.

During the conference I will share my own personal story of freedom, as well as the specific things God has taught me along my freedom journey. We will also have a few of the ladies from our CD, “Finally Free: Stories of Hope and Inspiration” there to share in more detail as well. These are all powerful stories of freedom, hope, redemption and grace.  You won’t want to miss this opportunity to hear from them.

We will spend time talking about issues that many of us deal with as women and I’ll share some of the things that have helped me along the way. Most importantly, you will be given an opportunity to actually turn those struggles over to God.  Only He can take them.  Only He can set us free.

There will be plenty of worship, fun and laughter!  My new book “Finally Free: Living Free and Loving Life” will also be available for the first time.

Scripture tells us that Christ came to bind up the brokenhearted and to set the captives free. Freedom is there for the taking, but it’s up to us to choose it each day.

If you’re struggling right now or if you have a sense that God has more for your life, I hope you’ll join me on Saturday, May 21 at Mt. Pleasant Christian Church in Greenwood from 9 am- 4 pm.  God has your best in mind and He wants you to be free!  Make May 21st your freedom day!

Top 10 Things I’ve Learned From BT

Happy Birthday Brian!

Today is my husband’s birthday, so as a way of celebrating him I thought it would be fun to let you all know some of the things I’ve learned from him through the years.  God broke the mold when he made Brian and I’m proud to share my life with him.  God has used him to change me forever and here are some of the things, both great and small, that have impacted my life.

Top 10 Things I’ve Learned From BT:

10. The importance of snacks on a long trip (or a short trip). Many of you know that we travel quite a bit with Tabor Ministries, but what you may not know is that we always travel with BT’s snack bin.  The first time he brought it out to the car, my eyes bugged out!  He covers it all from sweet candy to salty chips and everything in between.  He is truly a snacker and his snack bin is legendary!

9. How to throw a good party. BT LOVES parties, especially surprise parties.  As a matter of fact, he’s thrown me 4 since I’ve known him, including one for my last birthday which just happened to be a milestone.  I love that about him.

8. The importance of knowing the real names of tv and movie characters. That also goes for one-liners from movies, especially comedies.  He can tell you the real name of every actor or actress that was in any tv show or movie that he’s seen and his knowledge of movie one-liners is astonishing.  Why is that important?  Because you never know when you will need that kind of vital information.  Does anyone know who Fred Gwynne is?  BT does!

7. How to be a true “student of human moves.” Many of you may not know this, but BT does great impersonations.  He WILL NOT…I repeat, He WILL NOT do them on demand, so don’t even ask.  I’ll probably get in trouble for even mentioning this one, but it’s one of the funniest things he does.  He gets a kick out of studying people and figuring out what makes them tick.  He does a great impersonation of my dad!

6. How to make a GREAT fried bologna sandwich. I had never had the privilege of having one before I met Brian.  Those sandwiches have changed my life! 🙂

5. How to live on “Tabor Time.” If you’ve been invited to a party and the party begins at 7 pm you may think you will be on time of you arrive promptly at 7, but you would be wrong.  You need to arrive at 6:45 pm to be on time according to “Tabor Time.”  “On time” is code for “15 minutes early.” 🙂

4. How to assign a good nickname. If  you are a male and you are in BT’s life on a regular basis, chances are he has a nickname for you.  It’s one of his specialties and he has quite a gift in this area.  There’s TJ, Judy, Frenchie, Hoss, the Hammer, the Brazilian Express, and Nugget… just to name a few.  Each name is assigned with much love and great thought.

3. The importance of remembering that “everything comes into the light.” I’m a person that likes things to be fair.  I also like to voice the truth in someone’s defense when I feel something wrong has occurred.  I don’t have much patience in this area.  At times that works, but at other times it doesn’t.  Brian is very quick to remind me that the truth will always eventually come out.  EVERYTHING comes into the light in due time.

2. How to worship God from the depths of my heart with passion. I grew up in the Lutheran denomination and Brian grew up in the Assemblies of God.  Need I say more?  Worship was never a big part of my life until I met Brian.  When we started dating I was listening to Bon Jovi (which I still love) while he was listening to Praise and Worship CDs (or cassettes).  He opened my eyes to an area I knew nothing about.  He has taught me so much about how to pour my heart and soul out to God not only through music, but also in the dailiness of my life.  I’m forever grateful for the imprint he has made on my life in this area.

1. Most importantly, I’ve learned how to love by being loved by him. Brian takes his role as my husband very seriously.  He always says he wants our marriage to flourish, not just survive and puts actions behind those words.  He’s constantly thinking about what he can do to enhance my life and our lives together.  He shows me his love in countless ways each day and also tells me on a regular basis what I mean to him.  He has a quiet strength and on many occasions he has been my emotional rock – the steady, consistent one that I can count on.  He’s also not afraid to show his emotional side and the depth of his heart overwhelms me at times.  He has taught me how to love, by loving me well.

These are just a few of the reasons I love Brian Tabor.  He is truly my gift.

Happy Birthday, Sweetie!  I love you with all my heart!

Why He Came

It’s hard to believe Christmas is almost here and we will be saying goodbye to 2009.  I must admit Christmas is my favorite season of the year.  As my time, money and mind are all pulled in many different directions during this magical month, I must also admit that I need to make a concerted effort to keep my focus on the only thing that really matters.  Christmas is so much more than just a season of celebrating and gift giving.  Christmas….Christ coming to earth…..changed EVERYTHING!

Why did He come?  I know that question sounds pretty elementary to any of us that have grown up in the church.  We feel we already know the answer to that question.  It’s second nature to us.  He came to die so that we might be saved.  Hallelujah!  I am forever grateful, humbled and overwhelmed by that fact.  I would have no hope without Christ coming to earth, putting on flesh, taking my place on the cross and rising after 3 days conquering sin and death.  That kind of love pushes me to my knees with gratitude.  Wow!  What He did for you and for me is almost more than I can comprehend.

At times I find myself tempted to stop right there when answering the question of “Why He Came?”  It’s very easy to say that is the end of it. But God has been teaching me something as I’ve been going into churches of all denominations all across the country these last 8 years.  If I stop there, I’m only partially answering that question.

Isaiah 61:1 says, “The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor.  He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners.”  Isaiah is prophesying about Christ in this verse.  Yes, Christ’s death and resurrection sets us free from sin and death, but that’s only part of the story.  He came to set us free from the things that continue to bind us even after we have accepted His salvation!

If there is one thing I’ve been learning, it’s that Christians can be some of the most bound people walking the face of the earth.  I know what I’m talking about.  I, myself, lived a very bound life for many years and didn’t even know it.  I can still remember the moment when I realized I was not living in the freedom God had for me. Christ NEVER meant for His children to live a bound life.  He came so that we would have life and have it to the full and that doesn’t just mean after we leave this world.  That promise is for us here and now!

Even though we are in the midst of decorating, buying gifts, receiving gifts, attending parties, working on Christmas church productions and mailing out Christmas cards declaring this “The Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” many of us are walking around bound.  Oh sure, we’ll tell everyone we’re fine because that is what we as human beings do, especially around the holidays.

The truth is many of us are feeling deep loneliness, sadness and despair.  Some are wondering how they’re going to pay for everything this year when they’ve lost their jobs, while others are wondering how they’ll make it through the holidays for the first time without precious loved ones who have already been called to Heaven.  Still others are trying to figure out how they’ll be able to stand in the same room with a family member who hurt them deeply this past year.

This is a messy, painful world, but Christ came to bind up our broken hearts and to set us free! He came to show us how to forgive.  He came to heal the wounds of our hearts.  He came as a tangible way of proving that He can be trusted in ALL circumstances, even when we have no idea what is happening around us.  He came to give us the power to turn away from addictions, fear, bitterness, worry, anxiety, pride, doubt and despair while we’re walking on this earth.  This freedom is ours for the taking right now.  We don’t have to wait for it.  It’s our choice to either take advantage of that freedom or to continue to walk around being weighed down by heavy chains we were never meant to carry.  Galatians 5:1 says, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.  Stand firm then and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yolk of slavery.”  We are not victims, we are victors through Christ and it all started by Him coming to earth as a baby!

My prayer for all of you this Christmas is that you will be able to focus on what really matters.  If your heart is hurting, allow Christ to put His healing balm on your wounds.  If you are struggling to forgive, allow Him to teach you, once again, how to forgive as He has forgiven each of us.  If your mind is consumed with worry and doubt allow His peace to wash over you.  Whatever your chains, release them and turn them over to that precious Baby in the manger who came to make ALL things new and to set the captives free!

Surprise Blessings

Have you ever asked God to surprise you with a blessing?  I read a passage from a devotional book last week that challenged me to do just that.  I must admit the thought had never occurred to me, so I decided to try it.  That particular morning I was really struggling with some different issues and unanswered questions.  I began to feel doubt and fear creep into my heart and mind.  Unfortunately I’m very familiar with both foes, but instead of dwelling on those things I decided to do what the devotional had suggested, so I started to pray for God to surprise me with a blessing.  I didn’t ask for anything in greater detail than that.  I asked Him to bless me in any way He wanted, but to make sure I was surprised by it.  I don’t know what I was expecting, but I just tried to keep my eyes open to make sure I wouldn’t miss it.  I didn’t know how long it would take or what it would look like, but I knew my God was capable of delivering and deliver He did.

That very night at an event where we were scheduled to sing I got my first surprise blessing.  The second came on Sunday morning after a concert we did in Ohio.  I was totally shocked both times.  I had only asked for one and He gave two!  Isn’t that just like our God?

I won’t go into detail about what the blessings were because the details aren’t important.  Besides, blessings look different to different people.  The important thing is that God knew what I needed and He knew what would bless me and sure enough when both events occurred I knew they were straight from Heaven.  I will say this, I never saw them coming and was TOTALLY shocked on both occasions.

I want to challenge you to try the same thing.  We are God’s children and He celebrates us.  He wants to pour out His blessings on us.  Ask Him sincerely from your heart to surprise you and see what happens!